Dementia Care
Just Like Home provides specialized residential care for people living with Alzheimer's and other forms of dementia, in two small homes in Shelton, Connecticut. Below are the questions families ask us most, with video conversations hosted by our founder, social worker Deirdre Virvo.

Dementia is a general term for a decline in memory, thinking, and reasoning that is serious enough to interfere with daily life. It is not a single disease but a group of symptoms caused by an underlying condition. Alzheimer's disease is the most common cause of dementia. Other causes include vascular dementia, Lewy body dementia, and Parkinson's related dementia. Knowing the specific cause helps a family understand what to expect and how best to help.

Occasional forgetfulness, like misplacing keys or briefly forgetting a name, is a normal part of aging. Dementia is different. It involves memory loss that disrupts daily life, difficulty with familiar tasks, confusion about time or place, and changes in judgment or mood. When memory changes begin to interfere with everyday activities, it is worth talking with a doctor.
Common early signs include memory loss that disrupts daily life, trouble completing familiar tasks, confusion with time or place, new problems finding words, misplacing items, poorer judgment, and changes in mood or personality. Everyone forgets things now and then. What matters is a pattern of change that interferes with daily life. If you notice several of these, see a doctor, in part to rule out treatable causes such as a medication side effect, a thyroid problem, or a vitamin deficiency.

Changes in memory, mood, or behavior can be frightening, and you are not alone. Start by talking with a doctor, who can look for treatable causes and, if needed, make a diagnosis. Keep a simple record of what you are noticing to share with them. And remember that a calm, familiar environment and a steady daily routine make a real difference for someone living with memory loss.
Sundowning is a pattern of increased confusion, restlessness, or agitation that some people with dementia experience in the late afternoon and evening. It is not a disease itself but a set of behaviors. Steady daily routines, good daytime light, calm and quiet evenings, and a familiar setting can all help reduce it. Small residential memory care homes are well suited to easing sundowning, because a consistent routine and familiar caregivers lower the triggers.

Safety becomes more important as memory changes progress. Helpful steps include reducing fall and wandering risks at home, simplifying daily routines, and securing medications. When staying at home is no longer safe, a secure memory care setting can help. A small, familiar home with attentive caregivers helps a person stay calm, supported, and safe.

While there is no cure for most forms of dementia, everyday habits support memory and brain health: regular physical activity, staying socially connected, good sleep, managing blood pressure and blood sugar, and keeping the mind engaged. For someone already living with memory loss, familiar routines and calm surroundings help them stay comfortable and engaged in the moments that matter.
Educational sources: Alzheimer's Association, National Institute on Aging
Just Like Home is two small residential memory care homes in Shelton, Connecticut, for people living with Alzheimer's and other forms of dementia. We are memory care only, so every home and every routine is built around dementia.
Our homes are Dogwood at 62 Dogwood Drive and Long Hill at 757 Long Hill Avenue, both in Shelton. Founded by Deirdre Virvo, a social worker and author of "Home to Home."